My Lola Melba passed away last Saturday. She was the last surviving sibling of my maternal grandfather. I remember visiting her at home when I was younger. They had a couple of pet dogs, which is probably why those visits stick in my mind.
We both grew older. I would now see her mostly during family gatherings. When I came up to her for the customary pagmano she would delight me with an expected question (Do you already have a girlfriend?) or a frank observation (You gained weight). Spoken out of love, of course.
There was always an admirable grace in the way she carried herself – her wardrobe, manners, and speech. She exuded an effortless elegance that is rarely found nowadays. And not just during social occasions, but in everyday life as well.
Later in life, I would find myself reminding her of who I am or, more easily, who my parents are as we spoke. She moved a lot slower now, but the grace was still there. Even in the twilight of her years – through illness and (more frequent) hospital visits – she met life and, ultimately, death with the dignity that it deserved.
Until our next conversation, Lola Melba. Rest now.
The women in your clan has always exuded that elegance, P’re. Or at least, those I have met. Perhaps, it’s in the genes. 🙂
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I’m sure the women in my family would be happy to hear that, P’re.
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Condolences.
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